LifeSketch — Self-Management System
LifeSketch Self-Management System
Your self-management system

Productivity is doing what you intend to do.

You already know what to do. This system works in the space between knowing and doing: a planning rhythm around the outside, five tools inside it, and two moves at the center that every tool comes back to — deciding what's next, and coming back when you drift.

Two minutes when you drift. Twenty minutes to plan and review your week. Everything else waits until the system sends you there.

Tap any ring, tool, or face on the model — or pick where you're starting below.

The rim is your rhythm. The center is where every tool ends.
In the moment — 2 minutes

I've drifted. Come back to center.

Three tabs open, phone in hand, no idea what you were doing? This is the moment the system was built for.

Every week — 20 minutes

Plan and review your week.

Same steps, same order — whether last week happened or not.

First time — a calm hour

Start here. Sketch your season.

Your roles, your intentions, what you're going for in this chapter.

Returns — times you came back
Weeks tracked
The restart rule.

Been away a week — or a month? There's nothing to make up. Put down the story about the missed time, on purpose. Then run it from today. It gets the same mark as every other one. We don't count streaks here. We count returns.

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The center

Decide to Do

What's next — and am I on it?

Behavior starts with a decision. When you're not doing something, usually nothing has actually been decided yet. Two moves live here: What's Next when nothing's decided, and the reStart Rep when it was and you drifted.

You already know what success looks like here. If you don't yet, start in To-Do.

1

Determine

The very next smallest step you're willing to take that moves the ball forward. One sitting. A camera could see it. You'd actually do it — not could, would.

Not really next? Ask what would have to happen first. Not willing? Shrink it until it's almost embarrassing. Still won't — at any size? That's the Gap, not planning.

2

Decide

Take the step now, put it on the schedule, save it somewhere real, or let it go. Save means filed where you'll find it — a project folder, a list, a spot on the counter — not a soft scrap.

Make it concrete — write it in the block, say it, tell someone.

3

Do it

Take the step. Put it on the calendar. File it. Or put it down. Then come back for the next one.

Cleared. What's next?
Turns into a stack of workProjects · Head too full to pick one thingTasks · A choice is blocking itDecisions · Small enough and still won'tMap the Gap
1

Realize

One honest look. Observation, not judgment — this has to stay light enough to pick up on a bad Tuesday.

2

Redirect

Point attention back at the intention. If you realized it changed, or already got handled, point at what's actually next instead.

3

Restart

Every start begins with an ending. Close the last thing, then take the step that was already decided.

Counted. Coming back is the rep — the first one counts the same as the fiftieth. Done

Nothing to decide here — the step was already decided. If it turns out nothing is, switch to What's Next.

Can't name a stepWhat's Next · Won't take itMap the Gap · The pile is the problemTasks

You can't fail this by drifting. Only by not coming back.

The rim — planning & review

LifeSketch

Who am I being this season — and what's this week for?

The rhythm around everything else. Seasonal Plan & Review is your personal strategic plan — sketch it on a calm day, a few times a year. Weekly Plan & Review is twenty minutes that keeps it honest. If you only ever run the weekly, the system works.

1

Name the chapter

A season is a real stretch of life — a search, a semester, a launch, a new baby, a first year in business.

2

Roles, intentions, initiatives

The parts you play that matter right now. Add as many as are true — for some people that's three, for others it's eight. Intention: who you want to be in that role, and why it matters. Initiative: the big goal you're going for this season. A role with no initiative this season is a decision, not a failure.

Together, these define success
RoleIntention — vision · purposeInitiative — big goals · aspirations
3

Review the season

At the end of a season — or whenever the sketch feels wrong and you redraw it.

4

What's next?

Pick one initiative. What's the very next step you're willing to take on it?

Put it somewhere you'll see it. Authors revise.

1

Review

~5 min

First, what you said you'd do. Then how the week went. Don't fix anything here — that's what keeps twenty minutes at twenty.

Last week — did I do it?
2

Externalize

~5 min

Empty your head before you plan. To-dos go to your one trusted inbox in Tasks. Issues are the stuck things — pick one to work this week.

3

Roles, goals, next

~8 min

Which roles get this week? A goal for each, and the next step you're willing to take. Set what matters here — you'll put it on the calendar in TEA Budget.

RoleThis week's goalNext step
4

Commit

~2 min

Same question you ask about a step, asked about a week. Write it, say it, tell someone. Then track it. Your next steps and this line come back next week to check.

Tracked. Same mark whether it's your first week or your fifty-second.

Missed weeks? Nothing to catch up on. Start from today. Short on time? One role, one line, one change — five minutes still counts.

Tasks and projects — outcome goals

To-Do

What's coming at me, what do I want — and what's the next step?

Two directions, one ending. Tasks starts with the pile and works it until every item has a decision. Projects starts with a big goal and breaks it down until there's a step you'd take.

1

Externalize — one trusted inbox

Everything goes here first. Dump what's in your head. Download what's in your email and messages, the meeting you just left, the mail on the counter. Tasks, ideas, worries, wishes, projects — one per line. Don't sort while you dump.

2Refine

What is it — a task, a project, or an idea? Need more? Open "more" for success, why it matters, and time.

3Determine

The very next step. Break it down in your head if you need to.

4Decide to Do

Go down the list again: Step, Schedule, Save, or Scrap. Then do it.

2 · Refine3 · Determine4 · Decide
The itemWhat is it?Next stepStart

Marked it a Project? Take it to Projects. An idea isn't actionable yet — save it or scrap it. A line that keeps coming back untouched → the issues list on your weekly, or Map the Gap.

One trusted place. Decide, and it stops circling.

1

The big goal

2

Externalize

Everything first — judging comes second.

3

Break it down — the ingredients

Work backwards from done. What do I need to know, have, and do? e.g. "don't know what to say" → Do: write the script.

4

The instructions — organize the steps

Three to five steps, in order, and the next few moves inside each. Just the next layer — you don't need the whole tree before you start.

StepNext · next · next
5

Decide to Do

One at a time. Print it or clear it when you're done.

Shippable, not perfect.

Won't start the tiny oneDecide to Do · Know the step, won't moveMap the Gap · The whenTEA Budget · Same fight weeklyStructure
Time · energy · attention

TEA Budget

When does this happen — and do I have the time, energy, and attention for it?

Time management, and beyond. Your time, energy, and attention get spent either way; a budget is how you spend them on purpose. Zoom out to plan the week. Zoom in to run the day.

1

Calendar rules

What goes on a calendar: events with a time and place, reminders, time blocks — and your rhythms, the things that recur every week, month, or season. Never a to-do list, never wishes. If the calendar says it, it's real — that's what makes it worth checking.

2

Commitments

These go in before anything else — including the rest and the fun you actually intend to have.

3

The week ahead

Rough it here, then move it to wherever you actually keep your calendar. Every block gets its first step written in — that's what Schedule means.

Mon
Tue
Wed
Thu
Fri
Sat
Sun
4

Scan it — far ahead

What's coming this month or season that this week should know about?

5

Share it — communicate

Let people see when you're taken. Never say yes to time without the calendar in front of you.

6

See it

A plan you can't see can't help you. Where will this week live, so you run into it?

Move the blocks to your real calendar now, while it's in front of you.

1

Scan

Look at the week, your calendar, and your to-dos. Read them to choose from — don't copy them over.

2

Today · tomorrow

An intention for the day, then the commitments. Fixed things first, then blocks, then a first step inside each block so the block starts itself.

3

Schedule it

An alarm marks a moment you'd blow past. A timer builds a container: twenty minutes, then done — and twenty minutes counts.

From the fixed point. How long did it actually take last time? Then pad.

!When the day slips
protect a block · move one

Which block is likely to get interrupted — or avoided? How will you guard it?

The day will move. Move the block — don't delete it. A budget that gets adjusted is a budget working.

4

What's next?

Fix tomorrow's plan, not yourself.

The task itselfTasks · A project to planProjects · Same fight every blockStructure · Scheduled clean, avoided anywayMap the Gap
Your autopilot, designed

Structure

What can I set up once, so the good decision is easy every time?

Some parts of your week go the same way over and over, and you keep trying harder in the exact moment you're weakest. Different move: design it while you're calm, write it down, and put it where the moment happens. It doesn't take the decision away — it makes the good one cheap.

1

Name it

2

When and where does it happen?

Pin it down. Can't say when? Watch for it for two days and come back — you can't fix a thing you can't find.

3

What kind of thing is this?

4

What do you want?

Before you look at what happens — name what you're going for. Realistic: "out the door by 7:45," not "become a morning person."

5

What's really happening now?

Be honest — nobody's grading this. Every place this differs from what you want is where the structure goes.

6

The better version

Each column fixes the one above it. Fill only what applies.

7

Set it up

Do the first one before you leave this page.

Then copy the finished version onto the Run it card and post it where it runs.

Built once on Design it. This card runs on any day — fill only the parts this one needs.

Post it where it runs. A page in a folder does nothing at 6:30am. Fix the plan, not yourself.

One-time projectProjects · Where the blocks landTEA Budget · Built it, won't run itMap the Gap · To set it upDecide to Do
Decide your way forward

Decisions

What's the real question, and what can I do about it?

For the decision you can't make — torn between options, or circling the same question for weeks. Look at the decision from above instead of standing inside one option arguing with the others. Most picks are picks-for-now; knowing that is what lets you choose.

1

Say it plainly

2

Why am I stuck?

3

What was I going for?

4

The smallest move I can undo

A test, not a permanent identity. A draft you don't send. A filter you try for a week. If you can't think of a small reversible move, this one is bigger than this page — use the Big pass.

5

Pick one, for now

6

The next step

One at a time. Print it or clear it when you're done.
1

Name it

2

What am I going for?

3

What can I do about it?

List paths without filtering — include the bad ideas. Cross out anything that isn't yours to decide. Keep 3–5: only two options is usually a false choice.

PathA season from now, this looks like…Next step I can undo
4

Think it through

5

Choose — with the cost attached

One at a time. Print it or clear it when you're done.
A path is a whole projectProjects · Named it and won't take itMap the Gap · Step in handDecide to Do

Stay on top of the decision — not inside an option.

What's in the way

Map the Gap

What's actually stopping me?

You know what to do. That was never the problem. This is where we work on the rest.

1

Name it

2

The resistance

Which kind of stuck is this? A best guess is fine — not every stall is psychological.

Not sure — run the full map

Can't say what it's doing for you? You don't know this one yet — run the full map.

3

The experiment

Not a promise — a trial. Shrink it until you're willing: too big, break off a piece · too risky, a move you can undo · too exposed, do it with someone · too boring, put a clock on it.

4

Evaluate

When the look-date comes. Data, not verdicts.

5

Next

One at a time. Print it or clear it when you're done.

The problem is in your head, where you can't see it. This whole page is one move: get it onto paper, where you can look at it. You won't finish in one sitting — you're not supposed to. Date your passes. Coming back is the tool working.

1

Face the resistance

Does the stuck feeling actually match your sentence? If it's about something further back, run Backtrack (D) first.

2

Understand it

Four ways to look at the same resistance. Run the one that fits — opening one closes the others.

AWeigh it
when part of you wants this and part of you doesn't

Both lists are true at once. That's the stall — a foot on each pedal, not a broken engine.

BMap the loop
when the same pattern keeps running you
CMeet the part
when the payoff is hard to admit, or it feels older than this task

The resistance is a part of you with a job. It's not trying to ruin your life — it's protecting you, with a method that made sense once and costs too much now.

DBacktrack
when the problem you named doesn't feel like the real one

One question, repeated: "What's the worst part about that?" Ask it into each answer until the answer stops changing. Where it stops is the real problem.

Stopped somewhere new? Rewrite the problem sentence. Hit a choice you've been avoiding?Decisions.

3

Bridge it

Everything that could be done — bad ideas too. Then mark how much of each is yours, and the action it points to. Can't attach an action? Cross it off — that's putting it down on purpose.

4

Accept and commit

Watch the next few days: if it settles, it was a real choice. If it keeps nagging, the map missed something — come back and run another pass. Want to test it before you commit? Run it as a Bridge Experiment.

5

Decide the next step

One at a time. Print it or clear it when you're done.
A whole projectProjects · The same fight every weekStructure · An unmade choice surfacedDecisions · Step in handDecide to Do

It's doing something for you, or you'd have stopped years ago.

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